Relationship in #Nigeria is like market, buying and selling has become the order of the day, ''kiss'' has a prize tag, ''sex'' has a prize tag, ''love'' now come in shapes and in sizes.
Statistics shows that many don’t enter into relationships because of true love, but it’s either for ''good sex, money, good looks or connection'' etc. it’s sad to understand that unlike our parents only few tends to discover there soul mate.
In Nigeria the mindset of the citizens has been negatively influenced that, That every handsome guy is tagged a playboy (fuck boy, man whore, womanizer etc) and every beautiful girl is tagged a Slay queen (biller, slay mama, olosho, ashawo, bitch etc)..
And this mindset is currently crippling the root of true love, companionship and truth amidst relationship. It’s sad to know that in Nigeria we have a high record of divorce, breakup, separation all because nobody is willing to work on there self, to accommodate or endure, to love selfless without motive and be true to each other.. This have made the few faithful ones afraid of what is out there... Only if we discover to recover, so that we can find and hold onto what is rightfully ours, there is faithfulness but only few truly practice it.
Being single is not bad, compared to being in an unhealthy relationship. Many are frustrated and have turned there kindness to wickedness, just because of an unhealthy relationship, this has stolen joy, stolen peace, encouragement, charitable heart and forgiveness.. many men and women are unfaithful today because of there ''EX'' or past experience, but the problem is not the past, but there in-ability to forgive, let go and move on to a brighter future ... many are vengeful, vicious, serpentine tongues, who are only after cheating, they profess love but there heart is overflowing with hate and covetousness. When you are single, you are at peace, you are in joy, you might not have a love of partnership but At least you have self love...
The benefits of being single VS Disadvantages of Being in an Un-healthy Relationship
1. Peace of Mind
Peace of mind is like pouring water on your head after a sunny day, its like coming home knowing there is food in the pot, its like walking in the dark corner knowing you are being guided and protected. peace of mind is the root of joy, complete happiness and contentment, when you are at peace, you worry less, you won’t have to think about him or her, or wonder what he has done or doing, cheating or not ? , no jealously which brings depression and frustration Or being anxious for no reason. If you worry then it’s just for your parent, siblings or business or anything that concerns your wellbeing, but the troubled mind, of him or her, won’t be among your worries. When you are in a relationship with a jealous man or woman, you can never have peace because your every step is questioned, the worst of them is a nagging woman, she is like a tap that is dripping water drip, drip, nothing can stop her wild tongue, she has made many men run away from there home, she has made many men, drunkards, its better to stay single than be involved with that kind of women.
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